Not long ago, the article “5 signs of fake love” published on Passion.ru had a fairly wide resonance. Readers argued heatedly and tried to figure out what signs could then be used to determine true love.
From responses to the article "Five signs of fake love":
We have sorted out the “fake” one, now I would like to somehow decide on the “real” one. Is it true? A completely legitimate desire.
At the risk of incurring the wrath of a strict readership, which believes that love defies definition, that this is a subtle and too individual matter, I will say with all the responsibility of an experienced “loving” person: “True love has signs!”
Moreover, she has such signs that you will never be mistaken about her.
Because they exist a priori, that is, without reservations or conditions, as if initially, by definition.
You will definitely recognize her! At the same moment! For the simple reason that every person has once experienced this feeling at the deepest genetic level, at the moment of conception and intrauterine development.
No matter how the mother treats her child in the future, from the very beginning, on an uncontrollable, cellular level, he has already received this invaluable lesson of love from her. And it was about unity.
So what are they, signs of true love?
Love is freedom
Complementarity
You can give at least twenty definitions of the same thing, without which true love is impossible.
This could also sound simply at the level of the concepts of “friend” and “stranger”. A loved one is your own person, the closest, dearest.
Someone with whom you want to be yourself, with whom you feel at ease, freely, naturally, with whom you don’t have to play, deserve attention, think about words, actions, movements for a long time.
With our family, we open up, bare ourselves mentally, and become liberated.
This is great, because openness allows you to experience each other’s deepest inner movements, amazing consonance and involvement, unity.
But, unfortunately, this wonderful trait very often turns out to be the other side of us. She makes us vulnerable.
It is with the closest people that we can allow ourselves to be rude, we are not shy about definitions, we can thoughtlessly offend and offend our relatives, we free ourselves from conventions and restraining factors and give free rein to our anger, evil tongue, and spread our shortcomings.
No one is capable of hurting as much as the closest and most beloved person. Why is this happening?
We probably lack good manners, humanity, and restraint.
Take a closer look at yourself and those around you: at every step we kill each other with words and glances, irony and mocking remarks, bitter truths and revealing dotting the i’s, because we know our loved ones like peeling ones.
All the secrets, weak and strong points, shortcomings and hidden secrets.
We do not know how to use these secrets and appreciate the extent of this openness, which can give the greatest pleasure in the world.
People do not have enough words to express love and speak the language of love.
But there are enough definitions, revelations and other black nasty things that we, without hesitation, pour on the heads of our defenseless loved ones.
We quite rightly think that our loved one will forgive everything. And he forgives. Forgives. Forgives, poor fellow.
Until he comes across some heart-warming novel or film with beautiful relationships between hero-lovers.
He will envy their love. And he will want to have the same one. Only with someone else, less aware of his weak points.
With someone else, he will be much more careful and at the same time stingier in expressing feelings. And who will benefit from this?
So isn’t it better, instead of thoughtlessly throwing around words, to be emphatically sensitive to their selection when they concern the person most dear to you? Why subject your love to such tests...
Love is participation
Lack of submission
You've probably heard the popular belief that some lovers always love something, and some allow themselves to be loved.
Someone dominates, someone obeys. That is, initially one is higher, the other is lower. One is master, the other is servant.
Even subtle psychological ones, which, unfortunately, are found all too often in love stories. Sometimes to us, blinded by our feelings, this does not seem like slavery at all.
It seems natural to us to give joy, to sacrifice for the sake of a loved one, to obey his orders, advice, instructions, instructions.
We ourselves love to engage in the “education” of our dearest halves and expect this sweet “commandership” from them. Because it seems to us that it is in him that caring is manifested.
To set you on the right path is the amazing mission of a loved one. Is not it?
How many foreheads have been broken by this delusion. How many love boats have sunk, burdened by pedagogical Talmuds about the correctness of actions, duties, and norms of behavior within the family.
From invisible but strong whips, mental attacks, training, which only indicate that the road to divorce is paved with good intentions.
By the way, the idea of obligatory fidelity and the inadmissibility of adultery are concepts of the same order.
They arise from the need to command, own, subjugate. That is, they feed our ego. Another person is free in any of his actions and manifestations.
AND the meaning of love is to give him the right to free will.
Love is a deep feeling
This is when we are unable to be indifferent to each other. And at the same time, we accept the other as he is.
Yes, we can be angry with him, not share views, have different friends, do different things, like different foods, films, books, etc., etc.
But at the same time, to be so partial to your loved one that his work, films, books, friends, views become, as it were, ours. Notice that word “as if.”
Love easily and joyfully relates to the presence in another person of “differences from us.” She allows them to be. And strive to share, accept, understand, feel, and participate in them.
That is, how to try on the skin of another person, to some extent become him, while remaining yourself. And this is only possible through interaction, penetration, experience, etc.
No matter how much we are carried away by the idea of freedom, but love is a mutual feeling. This means it requires mutual participation and adaptation.
Do you remember what they usually wish for newlyweds? "Advice and love." Since childhood, I wanted to know what kind of advice this should accompany a happy family.
Now I understand it precisely as empathy. Or agreement with the existence of differences. And sympathy for this difference.
For all our complementarity, we are still too different. It takes time to get used to, to adapt to the different differences that are inherent in each of us.
Here you will probably have to bite your tongue on something, even sacrifice something for the sake of another person. Moreover, this process necessarily involves mutual participation.
Love is in constant motion
Very often another equally strong feeling is mistaken for love - falling in love.
It can be ardent, painful, hot, “...if you wait for a meeting like a holiday, you burn with impatience to see each other quickly, isn’t that love?”
It can burst like a soap bubble, from which not even the iris remains, or it can transform into its other form.
To another stage of development, which does not burst so quickly, because it penetrates into the very heart.
You have probably met women who have grown their love to the age of depth. You feel them from afar, as if a bright protective cloud hangs over their heads.
They are calm and confident, they enjoy life because there is love in it, protecting them from surface storms.
Some say that a satisfied woman can be seen a mile away. And they reduce everything only to physical satisfaction.
In fact, you can have forty orgasms every day, but never feel love and remain deeply unsatisfied.
Why does it sometimes seem that real feeling is somehow boring, calm or something insipid? This confuses many people.
They naively believe that love is when bridges burn and the world collapses. When passion blows your mind and your heart stops from excitement.
This happens, of course. But, as a rule, on the surface.
Do you want to compare love to the sea? Above there is a hurricane, noise, whistle, cries of seagulls, and in the depths there is silence, only the seaweed slowly sways and deep-sea fish swim somewhere.
But all the most important wealth of the sea is here, inside, in the depths. So it is in love.
Movement
It could be both growth and decline. She is like life itself: it never stands still.
And if anyone thinks that it can be preserved once and for all in the same version (in words, poses, rituals, gifts, etc.), then they are deeply mistaken.
Love, with all its depth, does not tolerate monotony. She always prepares surprises for us. And we to her. This changeability is the meaning of its longevity.
Does this seem paradoxical to you? “How can inconstancy be a sign of love?” – a strict reader will ask.
In fact, the most stable and sure sign of love is movement. It's unavoidable.
In which direction your feeling will move depends only on you. Will it degrade, dry up, die, or blossom, deepen, develop? Everything depends on you.
If you carelessly rest on your laurels, thinking that you have caught eternity by the tail, or carelessly throw around words and actions, testing its strength, then there is a high probability of losing this heavenly gift, which is given to everyone, but not everyone is able to appreciate this gift. and save.
Think about it! Everything is in your hands, ears, eyes, brains, hearts and souls - try not to hang chains, blinders, pasta and shackles on them. And then you won’t have problems with “true” love!
And all because no one has yet given an accurate definition of true love.
7 actions that kill love
Nowadays there is a widespread assertion that love lasts three years, and then a surge of hormones gives way to routine. In practice, it turns out that many relationships do not even last up to three years, because men and women have a lot of ways to destroy them.
Anna Zaitseva
Did you know that love is a disease? In any case, the World Health Organization classified it as a mental illness and even issued a special serial number. From now on, the international code for love in the disease registry is F 63.9. And like all diseases, love has its own symptoms: obsessive thoughts, insomnia, sudden mood swings, unexpected impulsive actions, headaches and changes in blood pressure.
But still, when we have a headache or can’t sleep all night, the last thing we think about is that these are signals of the approach of great love. This feeling is difficult to explain, but a number of obvious signs can be listed.
1. You have no doubts
If Cupid shoots in the heart, then this shot is well-aimed and leaves the victim no chance of salvation. We fall in love irreversibly: neither relatives, nor circumstances, nor distances, nor natural disasters can prevent this feeling.
Let your friends repeat a thousand times that he is not your match, and your mother confidently declare that she did not raise you for this - this will not raise any doubts about the sincerity and correctness of feelings. You simply understand that the puzzle has come together: with this person you clearly see your own future in a year, five, ten years and imagine him in the role of a spouse and parent.
2. You cannot answer the question: “Why do you love him?”
Not because you have lost your mind and shame from love, and at the same time your memory, but the answer does not exist for you. You don’t love for something specific, but for the fact that he simply exists. You feel he is your soulmate. Of course, you can flirt that you fell in love with your beautiful eyes or fat wallet. But such reasons have nothing to do with true love.
3. You don't pay attention to others.
“Autumn has come, the leaves are falling. I don’t need anyone except “you” - this is a comic, but extremely brief and understandable description of this sign of love. You completely throw out all your emotions on one person and are completely indifferent to others. Even if Johnny Depp or Til Schweiger himself comes down to you from the starry Olympus, you will be incredibly pleased, but you still won’t abandon your dear and beloved Vasya.
4. Feel safe
With a loved one, under any circumstances, there is a feeling of reliability. It enters your comfort zone, warmth and spiritual unity allows you to be completely relaxed and calm.
5. Your relationship is growing
Sometimes it takes time for love to take shape. If the initial passions in a relationship have subsided, and the desire to give tenderness and care is only gaining momentum, this is another sure sign.
6. You get better
A person inspired by a bright feeling has an incentive to grow and develop, to become more interesting and attractive. At the same time, true love will not require you to make unbearable sacrifices and total changes in your self. There should be no hard work in love: confident work on oneself - yes, but it should not oblige one to make sacrifices.
7. Learn to forgive
Collecting a collection of grievances is a futile exercise. Love, although it is a disease F 63.9, in this case serves as a universal vaccination against this hobby. Lovers are always ready to forgive each other. This does not come easy to them: sometimes it literally takes years. The feeling of resentment is also very strong and often competes with love. Where betrayal occurs, a serious spiritual battle begins. Strong love can overcome all grievances and heal any emotional wounds.
8. You are one team
You play according to the general rules and do not score goals into your own goal. Don’t complain to others about your loved one’s shortcomings and you can be sure that he, too, stands by your side. You are links in one chain, two independent, equal and equivalent figures.
9. You know how to remain silent with each other
Having fun while talking on the phone all night long is a sure sign of interest in each other. Love stories of various sizes usually begin with such late-night conversations. But sometimes silence reveals much more. When the silence between you does not form an awkward pause, a quiet dialogue between two souls begins.
10. Your feelings may not last forever.
There is a myth among lovers that true love is something that happens once in a lifetime. If you have already fallen in love, you will never stop loving, and if you have lost your love, then you will never experience this again. But in life everything changes and everything, unfortunately or fortunately, passes. Love is a skill akin to riding a bicycle: once you learn it, you can’t unlearn it. After an unfortunate fall, it helps to get up and continue moving towards new love.
It is also important to keep in mind that everyone has their own formula for true love, their own secret - the place from which the necessary inspiration and nourishment is drawn.
We always wonder why girls are so illogical. They are looking for a decent, kind young man, but they themselves are going crazy with the local hooligan, a typical bad guy. They talk about creating a strong relationship, and then they cheat on you with the first person they meet. How to understand what she feels for a man?
But, as the famous Irish writer and playwright Oscar Wilde said,
“Women are created to be loved, not to be understood” - Oscar Wilde
Falling in love changes a person from the inside, which immediately catches the eye of those who know the girl well. Even if a young lady manages to hide the sparkle of her eyes from her gentleman and seem restrained and demonstratively indifferent, then close friends and relatives will certainly notice a nervous tremor of excitement and confusion of speech when her beloved guy is mentioned.
It will not be at all difficult for an attentive and sensitive young man to find out from such reliable sources what the desired girl feels for him. You just need to put together a puzzle of subtle hints, unambiguous clues and draw the right conclusions for yourself.
Signs of falling in love in women are a litmus test in the hands of a man, which will help you easily determine whether your partner loves you or whether the relationship is wonderful only in words.
Pay attention to the behavior of the chosen one. Signs of a woman's love are sometimes more eloquent than the hottest confessions and juicy love SMS. Some oddities, actions and manners that are unusual for her are always clearly visible to an attentive gentleman.
Let's start with the main thing. A lady in love tries to attract attention to herself: with random gentle touches, skillful “shooting of her eyes” from under half-closed eyelids, attempts to constantly be as close to the young man as possible.
Sometimes the desire to be noticed, to stand out from the crowd, pushes a young lady into demonstrative behavior, for example, laughing loudly in response to a clearly unfunny joke or completely ignoring the object of passion.
Moreover, sometimes girls themselves provoke a man into conflict in order to hide the feelings that they really feel for him behind insolence and a mask of disdain.
It is important for a guy to understand that signs of a woman’s love for him can appear in the most unusual situations and sometimes shock others. If a young lady constantly teases and teases you, tries to unbalance you, do not be offended. Such strange behavior is nothing more than the female version of “pulling pigtails.”
Revealing women's secrets. Questionnaire for attentive guys
Observe the behavior of your chosen one. Here's what you should pay close attention to:
1. Has she noticeably gotten prettier?
The desire to please a potential groom pushes young ladies to experiment with their appearance. This could be a change in hair color and length, clothing style, or the desire to lose weight.
Yesterday’s “gray mouse” will change from comfortable baggy jeans to light romantic dresses, and a reserved business woman turns into a cheerful, mischievous girl with a whole fountain of emotions, and you suddenly notice that she is damn pretty.
The range of changes can be enormous. From a passion for sports or ballroom dancing to skydiving.
Love is the best cosmetics. But it’s easier to buy cosmetics. - Yves Saint Laurent
Sometimes playing too much with your appearance can look ridiculous. A sweet girl can become like the heroine of the series “Don’t Be Born Beautiful” Katya Pushkareva. In one of the episodes, under the influence of love, the typical “smart and modest girl” agreed to the services of a provincial stylist, who turned the heroine’s face into a solid multi-colored spot.
A girl in love glows with happiness. The secret is simple: such a strong feeling inspires, fills us with joy, optimism and makes the sweet young lady even more beautiful. Have you noticed how she has changed?
2. Does your gaze make her blush?
If a woman does not take her eyes off, but, meeting your gaze, tries to hide her interest with demonstrative indifference or embarrassment, this is a clear sign that she is not indifferent to you.
And if at the same time the lovely lady’s pupils dilate and her gentle gaze touches your lips every now and then, the man has something to think about.
3. Are you ready to follow you to the ends of the earth?
The main signs of love in women are care and guardianship, the willingness to always come to the rescue, help out, and support a guy in difficult times also says a lot for an attentive observer.
It is unlikely that such caring behavior and readiness to sacrifice for the sake of a guy is limited to innocent friendship. Most likely, the girl is in love, but is afraid to admit her feelings.
4. What do the movements of her body indicate?
When communicating with a gentleman, a cutie in love performs unconscious actions: smoothes her hair, twirls a curl of hair on her finger, actively gestures, repeats, “mirrors” the gestures and posture of her interlocutor.
Shows a desire to touch, stroke a palm, sweep away invisible dust from a shoulder, straighten a cuff, tie or hairstyle.
Is she unreasonably excited when communicating with a young man? The rapid breathing of a woman in love and slight absent-mindedness easily give away her little secret. It’s not for nothing that they say that lovers “float in the clouds.”
5. Have the chosen one’s priorities changed?
He asks mutual friends about the guy, explaining his behavior with innocent interest. Frequently visits his page on social networks. She will gladly exchange communication with close friends for a conversation with the man she likes. She is ready to give in and shows almost angelic patience.
6. Does being jealous mean loving?
Jealous of other females, even if you have only friendly relations with them. Women in love are possessive people who do not want to share the attention of their chosen one with strangers.
This explains the frequent calls during working hours, sweet SMS and attempts to find out in the company of which people the loved one spends time.
7. Is he trying to seduce you?
Flirting and coquetry, compliments, pleasant surprises, gifts are important components of a relationship. Even after many years together.
How do you know if she has fallen out of love?
Unfortunately, feelings, like expensive alcohol, tend to be removed from the blood and disappear from our consciousness. How do you understand that a relationship has outlived its usefulness, and the subtle magic of passion has dissolved in the gray everyday life? Is love alive or is it a habit, dancing on the long-cooled embers of a former passion?
Top 10 signs that your partner has fallen out of love:
- Rarely shows sincere interest in the gentleman. Usually when she needs help.
- The relationship took on a tinge of self-interest. The words “buy”, “take” and “give” in her messages have long replaced “love”, “kisses” and “I’m looking forward to it”.
- The words of the chosen one emanate indifference and coldness. Rarely makes eye contact. I even stopped being jealous. Your beloved has new interests and friends, whom she is in no hurry to introduce you to.
- Frequent conversations about other men, comparisons that are not in your favor clearly indicate problems and misunderstandings.
- Live communication has turned into torture. A lady would rather leave home or hide behind the screen of gadgets in the world of social networks than agree to have a frank conversation with a man.
- Intimate life has become faded, does not cause former delight or does not bring pleasure. The former burning kisses turned into a meaningless ritual. With the same enthusiasm, she could throw a token at a subway turnstile, brush her teeth in the morning, or wash the dishes.
- The chosen one has stopped caring for herself and only puts on a makeover before leaving the house.
- She doesn’t try to surprise her with an exquisite delicacy or pamper her with her favorite dish, although she used to love cooking.
- He actively communicates with other guys, flirts, and hides correspondence from you. Reluctant to talk about his plans, does not share his thoughts.
- Conflicts have become frequent guests within the walls of the house. A dispute can flare up even over little things that would not have been noticed before.
What to do if there is no more love?
Talk to your beloved about the problems and prospects of the union. Find out what doesn't suit your partner. Perhaps this is a typical family crisis. Working on relationships, as well as the interest of both partners in solving problems, can strengthen the union and fill life with romance and passion again.
Don’t be shy about writing out from your soul those who actually live in a completely different place. — Rozbitskaya Natalya
Don't accumulate resentment, don't blame. If there is no more room for love in a lady’s heart, passion has long disappeared, turned into a habit, psychological dependence or selfish deal, let her go. Forgive and wish you happiness. Fate will still give you a chance to meet true love.
If you carefully study the statistics of divorce proceedings, it becomes clear that many representatives of the fairer sex have no idea what it really is. Love. Among most of them there is an opinion that love is passion and constant courtship by representatives of the opposite sex. But period of falling in love passes, passion gradually begins to fade away, the partner no longer compliments and gives gifts with flowers every day, and then disappointment sets in. Romance gives way to ordinary everyday life, and lovers they just start living together.
Women have to take care of comfort and cleanliness in the house; perhaps, problems arise with funds, because new tasks and goals require certain investments, especially if they do not have their own home and have a strong desire to have a child. Men become more irritable and demanding, and perhaps even stop paying attention altogether when they come home tired from work. It is precisely at this period that it comes, replacing passion real love, which allows a couple to survive what seems to be the most insurmountable difficulties. Well, if this love did not exist in the first place, then living together becomes unbearable for the couple and it simply breaks up.
Only in cases where two people really love each other will they be able to overcome any difficulties, while understanding that they must fight them together, otherwise they will feelings may fade away and everything that connects them may disappear, leaving only pain and emptiness. After all real love is the desire to do something nice for your loved one, support him in everything and help him. Love cannot exist together with mistrust, envy and jealousy. Real love warms, cares and forgives, even in cases when the whole world is against it. There is no difficulty that people in love cannot endure. When love for real They never think about themselves, any action or word is aimed at supporting a loved one.
Real love cannot but be mutual, everything else is just a created appearance. Love is simply a fleeting passion, and a crazy attitude is nothing more than attraction. A relationship with a person who does not value you is either pity for him or a desire to prove to someone that everything is fine with you and you are no worse than others, but all this not love and has nothing to do with her. Love is the ability to treat a loved one as oneself, to help, take care of him, and also to experience his pain as one’s own.
Love cannot exist without mutual respect
Real love does not accept pride, arrogance and disdain. About love you can’t say if one partner gives you the opportunity to love only yourself, while the other will completely dissolve in him. If this feeling is real, then loving person will give more than receive. He will not ask for anything in return, but he will also not try to please his chosen one in everything, understanding that treating himself without due respect, he will show the same disrespect towards him. Agree that everyone is pleased to see a confident and strong personality next to them.
The same person who chooses to regularly criticize, point out flaws, insult and be offended by everything a partner does, for love not created. For such people, women are only objects for satisfying their own capabilities and desires, and also, due to their humiliation, to feel more successful and better. But such an attitude cannot be blamed only on the partner. In such cases, women themselves allow themselves to be treated this way, missing the time when it was necessary to put him in his place or find the strength within himself to break relationship .
Love. Don't love others more than yourself
Don't let yourself become a victim. Remember that, first of all, it is necessary care and love myself. When you learn to respect and appreciate yourself for everything you have done, and also work on your character (those places that you don’t like), only then can you really understand what love is.
By hurting their partner, men show women their true feelings. At the same time, he does not experience feelings of love, but simply enjoys his own strength and superiority. loving person , wants his beloved to be on a pedestal, and he would admire her.
They are recognized not by beautiful words, but by deeds. Let us immediately note that you will not have to demand anything from him, he himself will bring all the riches of the world to your feet. After all, you won’t demand that you do anything impossible if you really love yourself. Thus, experiencing true feelings to your loved one, you will want to give more than to receive, but you also will not allow yourself to be used.
You should avoid relationships with those who will try to lower your self-esteem and instill a feeling of inferiority. You need to run away from such people. You can never be happy if you don't be in love first of all yourself. Otherwise, you will forever depend on others, and when their interest and Love will fade away, the world around you can turn into sheer suffering.
Love and be loved!
Many women don't know how to find out if a man loves them.
And if experienced young ladies who have been through a lot already know at least the basic signs of true male love, then young girls and girls inexperienced in matters of love have no idea how to recognize a man’s love, how to distinguish a real feeling from a beautiful lie, they have not yet learned to separate the grains from the chaff.
In order to come to the conclusion that a man loves you, it is enough to have only the overwhelming majority of the signs of male love given here in his words and actions. Well, if male behavior does not correspond to most of the signs, it means that most likely (but again - not a fact, but very, very likely) the man does not really love you, but is only playing love cat and mouse, and in this In this case, the cat is he, and you are assigned the role of a gray and suffering mouse.
Real signs of male love. If a man loves, then...
If a man loves a woman, then he never humiliates her.
If a man loves, then a girl doesn’t need to win his love, respect, she doesn’t need to prove absolutely anything - all the evidence already lives in his heart and you can’t burn it out with hot metal.
If a man experiences true love for a woman, and does not suffer himself and does not torment his beloved with neurotic illusions, then he will never hit her under any pretext: he does not hit her, which means he loves her. And this applies not only to physical, but also to moral, mental, and psychological blows. A loving man does not wound his lady with a dagger in the very heart - he leaves it for her and his enemies.
A loving man always wants a child from the woman he loves.
If a man truly loves, and does not adore himself in his love for a woman, he will take off the latter, sell his beloved car, work three jobs from dawn to dusk, but will make sure that his beloved is happy and opportunity did not need anything.
If a man loves a woman, then he makes many sacrifices for her sake - from refusing to be friends with certain people to agreeing to spend the entire weekend with his dearest and beloved wife on a tiring run through shopping centers.
If real love lives in a man’s heart, then a man forgives his chosen one for any shortcomings, regardless of the degree of their number, significance and originality.
If a man loves a woman, he calls her to marry, he wants her to become his official, legal wife, to be together in sorrow and in joy.
If a man really loves a woman, then he strives to spend ALL his free time with her.
When a man feels love for a certain woman, he is not afraid to humiliate himself, to look funny in the eyes of his beloved and the people around him, he is ready to do anything to achieve her reciprocity.
If a man loves, he calls first, and does not harass his beloved by not communicating with her for days.
A loving man does not show off in front of his beloved - next to her he is more humble than the humblest lamb.
It is difficult to say why a particular man loves a particular woman, but usually this love is based on his love for his mother, if this is true love, or on the unavailability of a certain girl for him, if this is not real love, but only a neurotic dependence, called not inherent in her feeling of love.
If a man loves, he is ready to wait at least a year for the first intimacy with his beloved - as long as she is nearby, in his life, and does not reject his advances.
When a man loves, he often gives a woman small or large gifts and gifts - depending on the level of his material income and social status.
If a guy loves, he will spend his only 100 rubles, but he will be perverted and take the girl to a cafe, wanting to surprise her, please her and please her.
When love lives in a man’s heart, it doesn’t stare around at other people’s women in search of new love adventures - he already has everything and doesn’t need anyone else, no one’s size ten tits, and no one’s oversized butts a la Jennifer Popes.
If a man loves, for the sake of his beloved he will move mountains, make a career, open a business, and become famous throughout the world.
When a man loves, he says tender words to his beloved, even if he doesn’t know how. Or, at least, he tries to do this, learns the art of beautiful words and compliments, expresses his feelings, if not with words, then with gestures, actions, gifts, help and support.
A woman can ALWAYS rely on a truly loving man - without exceptions or reservations.
In any difficult or dubious situation, a truly loving man will ALWAYS take the side of his beloved, even if she is wrong.
If a man’s love for a woman is real, there is no calculation and conditions in it according to the principle “If you don’t do this or that, I will stop loving you,” and according to any other principles, true love also completely lacks calculation and conditions, unless they are aimed at making the woman you love even happier.
A man's real love does not stoop to blackmail and bribes.
If a successful man loves a woman, then he does not buy her mutual love, but only tries to make his beloved happy.
If a man loves his woman, he will not humiliate, insult, or scold her in the presence of other people.
When a man loves, he doesn’t care whether his beloved is a bitch or not.
If a man loves and does not suffer from a passionate neurotic, but temporary, mental-heart disorder-insanity, he will never cheat on the woman he loves under any pretext: if necessary, he will fight off fans, refuse 1000 and 1 lovely chick, but will remain faithful for the beloved in all her virgin chastity.
If a man loves, he is not interested in his wife's friends, even if they flirt with him.
A sure sign: if a man loves you, expect touching SMS from him.
A sure sign: if a man loves, he will take on some of the responsibilities around the house, including sometimes washing the dishes at the request of his beloved or even without her, sometimes he will clean the house himself, take out the trash, and do shopping.
A sure sign: if a man feels genuine love for a woman, he will never be embarrassed by her, even if she talks complete nonsense in public.
If a man loves a woman, he will earn money in one way or another, work, look for an opportunity to provide his beloved with everything she needs, and will never calmly and shamelessly sit on her neck and support.
When a man loves, he does not hesitate to appear with his woman in public, openly go with her to the movies, restaurants, official events, take her to his home, introduce her to her mother, to his friends... He is not shy and does not look for stupid excuses.
If a man loves, then he loves not with his eyes, but with his heart and with all his soul, so the appearance of his beloved is not really important to him - in his heart she will always be the most beautiful and sexy, wonderful lady in the world. Even though she is now running around the house in a cucumber mask and a greasy robe, she is still his beloved woman.
If a man loves, he will never jokingly tell her that “You are the only one - you were, you are and you don’t need to eat anymore.”
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