From the article you will learn why a man can suddenly stop communicating both after a short relationship and during long-term love relationships. Find out what thoughts push him to silently disappear from a woman’s life. We will discuss what to do and what not to do in order to return it and whether it is necessary at all.
Many women are faced with a situation where a man simply silently disappears from her life. If such trouble befell you, but at the same time you know that the man is alive and well, do not blame yourself for it, most likely the problem is not with you.
Why does a man disappear
He got what he wanted. A trivial situation - after a short conversation between a man and a woman, sex happens, after which he stops calling and writing. Maybe also not answer calls. In this situation, the man has achieved his goal and the woman is no longer interesting to him.
This does not mean that the moment of intimacy should occur as late as possible - everything is individual, it happens that even after sex on the first date, long-term, strong relationships begin. It’s just that the man initially did not have serious intentions towards the lady.
It may well happen that he will show up after a while, tell you that he was very busy and will soon disappear again. Well, everything is clear here - he’s just using the woman.
The relationship no longer suited him. Let’s say a man has no serious intentions, and a woman begins to hint to him that it’s time for their relationship to move to a new stage. The man doesn’t like this turn and disappears.
The woman was slandered. Some “well-wisher” could tell a man that his woman was cheating on him. A man who is too trusting will not even find out anything.
He's just passing the time while he's looking for the woman of his dreams. A man can date a woman who more or less suits him and at the same time look for the one who will light a fire in his heart. When one is found, he may disappear without explaining anything.
He is afraid Serious relationships. A man can take a time out, for example, if he has experienced betrayal by a woman. He just needs time to understand whether he is ready to tie himself into new ties.
He returned to his ex. He started a relationship with you to take his mind off his past experiences. But then his ex decides to return everything and you become unnecessary.
Why didn't he explain himself?
If he comes to you only to satisfy his natural needs, be prepared for the fact that one day he will disappear from your life. If a woman for a long time meets a man and he doesn't propose, she should accept the idea that she doesn't the same one.
When a man truly falls in love, he wants to make this woman his right away.
What to do if a man disappears
If a man disappeared and never called or wrote, you should still call him yourself and ask if everything is okay with him (in the case when you really have nowhere else to find out about it). Otherwise, he will think that he is so indifferent to you that you don’t even care if he is alive. Moreover, until you know the reason for his disappearance.
And before you start figuring out the reasons for his disappearance, check out this one that will help you understand why men don't want relationships.
After you have found out that he is alive and well, there is no need to call and insist on a meeting. Maybe he took a break because he doubts whether he wants to be with you. If at this time you begin to impose yourself (even if you think that you just want to sort things out, for him it looks like an imposition), this will only worsen the situation.
Of course, you won’t be able to sit idly by either. Therefore, keep yourself busy with something. The waiting time can and should be filled. Take care of yourself, meet with friends, go to visit relatives who live in another city. New impressions will not leave you time for sadness and worries.
Do what makes you happy. You need to fill yourself up positive emotions. All this will help to generate personal magnetism, which so attracts the opposite sex.
In addition, I advise you to watch a video from relationship expert Nadezhda Mayer. It talks about how a woman can act to push a man away. After watching the video, you will learn to avoid mistakes on initial stage relationships.
What to do if a man shows up
If he does show up and wants to meet, let him know that you are still interested in him, but not in the same way as before. Do not immediately rush into his arms - this way he will think that you have been waiting for him and you are quite happy with being a backup option. Explain to him your feelings: that you were worried about him, about your relationship. Tell him that now you need to think things over and decide whether you want to continue being with him. Let the man win your affection again.
Answers on questions
After a year of relationship, the man disappeared, has not called or written for two weeks. I do not know why. During this time, I never called him or wrote to him, because this is humiliating for a woman. Am I doing the right thing?
A year is a serious period of time and there is nothing humiliating about calling and asking what happened. By your behavior you made it clear that he is not important to you enough to step over your principles and write first. Perhaps your lack of initiative in relationships was the reason for his disappearance.
I know the reason why my man stopped communicating with me. I want to apologize, but he doesn’t pick up the phone and doesn’t respond to SMS. How should I behave, should I continue to seek a meeting with him?
You made an attempt to apologize - that's good. Perhaps the man has not yet cooled down enough and is not yet ready to listen to you. Give him time to calm down and try talking to him again after a week. If you are dear to him, he will definitely listen to you and try to forgive you.
A man periodically disappears for a week or two, and then comes back as if nothing had happened. There is only one answer to all questions: I was busy. I really like him, but I doubt whether this relationship is worth continuing.
Your doubts are completely justified. One can forgive a single such case. But in your relationship this is already a pattern. If a man treats you seriously, he will never behave like that, if only because you could simply be taken away during his absence.
What to remember
- If a man disappears after the first sex, just forget it. He had no serious plans for you. Any initiative you take will only humiliate you in his eyes.
- There is no need to be afraid to write or call first if you have had a good long-term relationship - worrying about a loved one is quite natural and necessary.
- Whatever the reason for his removal, don't blame yourself. But, if your men disappear again and again, then you need to look for the reason within yourself and work on it. In most cases, men disappear because of their inner beliefs, intentions and fears.
Some men have a habit of disappearing for a while and returning again without explanation. The article will help you understand why guys disappear and how to deal with it.
In general about the issue
Men - interesting creatures, which can be very unpredictable. They exhibit several behaviors, some of which make us scratch our heads and make us frown, but other times they can surprise us.
When it comes to relationships, men are afraid of responsibility and start acting strange. They simply disappear for a while, and then suddenly appear, although in many cases they never even return.
There are no calls, no letters, no messages from them. The man simply stops communicating with you, although a few days before he confessed his love to you.
Here are some good reasons why guys disappear and then come back.
He dates several girls at once
Men these days seem to love playing such games. They often date at least two women at the same time.
Although it is not a crime today to date several girls at the same time, only dishonest people do this. Playing a double game, a man gives girls false hopes. He views his partners as commodities and not as people. Women are people first and foremost and should be treated with respect.
Yes, some women also exhibit this behavior, but it is more common in men. It is they who have a biological predisposition to such actions, because this is how they feel wanted and in demand.
But in fact, they simply cause mental pain to both women and themselves. Everyone deserves love. And this selfish attitude hurts people. This does more harm than good. Only those men who have problems with self-esteem do this.
Sometimes this means that he really has a lot to do and you are not a priority for him.
It sounds stupid, but it's very plausible. Women are not the only meaning in life for men. They tend to have challenging career situations, wonderful parents, and perhaps a lot of responsibilities. Although this is not a reason to ignore the woman he is dating.
According to male logic, he should avoid relationships if he does not have enough time and energy to build one with a girl. He must find the strength to confess this to the lady, and not just disappear without a trace.
Men are so busy these days that they tend to forget that those around them also have feelings. Thus, in essence, a representative of the stronger sex allows himself to hide behind his busyness so as not to devote time to a woman.
Sometimes this means men are afraid of commitment.
These days, a lot of guys are afraid to be in a relationship. And all because they want to maintain their image of a bachelor.
For many men, settling down means signing their own death warrant. This means that there will be no more evenings with friends, this is a restriction of freedom. This means forgetting about personal interests and just spending time with one person all the time.
This is a myth that men believe when faced with a potential long-term relationship. They enjoy their space and freedom, so they view budding relationships as a potential threat to their independence, when in fact they are simply afraid of commitment.
Of course, there are guys who were hurt by past relationships and the remnants of those bad feelings stay with them. This prevents the building of new relationships. Some men have seen friends get burned and swear they will never put themselves in that situation.
Regardless of their reasoning, fear of commitment should not be a reason to disappear and cause damage to a loved one. Again, a man must be honest and let the woman know the truth so as not to waste time on an empty relationship.
Sometimes this means that a man wants a relationship, so he keeps his distance
Yes, there are people who are not sure what they want. They constantly change their minds about which direction they need to move and how to live.
According to male logic, they want to be the one in control of the relationship. All relationships are a power struggle, and most men don't want to share control with a woman. When feelings become deeper and affection becomes stronger, the guy must decide whether he wants to continue all this.
Unfortunately, he usually does not have such a desire, and he finds ways to slow down and keep everything at a certain level. And then he disappears.
Yes, he loves spending time with the girl, but he doesn't want to hurt her by pushing her away. It seems that in such cases they say: “Sits on two chairs.”
Again, the man does not tell his girlfriend a lot, leaving her bewildered, and does not give her the freedom to find love with another guy. Only cowards do this.
A man is not sure about his feelings for you
When it comes to relationships, many men are not sure that they want to start something serious with the woman they are dating.
At first they are sweet and caring, and then they become callous and cold. They seem to have no idea what a serious relationship is or how much work needs to be put into it. You can be the girl next door with whom he feels calm and comfortable. He is completely satisfied with such a relationship, and he does not want, and is not ready for, anything serious.
He might be that guy who invites you to hang out with him one day and then suddenly gives up on the idea and wants to hang out with his friends.
Most likely, if he continues to reconsider his decisions, he will be afraid to realize that he is serious about you. Unfortunately, this is a sign of a weak relationship, and you are better off running as far away from such men as possible. He won't be thinking about you anytime soon and it just doesn't make sense for you to invest your heart and time into him. He's not worth it.
Instead of doubting himself and his feelings, he should take a serious look at his life and be honest with himself rather than disappearing.
He's not your match
Unfortunately, this is very common reason, along which the man disappears. He thinks he gave you a chance. However, you are not the person he wants to be with. According to male logic, he leaves so as not to break your heart, when in fact his actions cause you even more pain.
There is no crime in not liking a potential partner, but it is not okay to allow a person to think that everything is fine when it is not. It's much more humane to be honest and end the relationship before it develops into something more.
A little conclusion
Yes, there are a lot of guys who choose to act like a coward instead of being honest and letting the ladies go. It’s mean and very bad to deceive a girl, although a man often doesn’t care about her feelings.
You can't just get out of control and disappear without a reason or explanation.
While there are many reasons why guys disappear and reappear, it all comes down to one sign: move on!
Women don't want a man who disappears into the unknown when a relationship begins to develop. This is not the person you want to build a relationship with. Regardless of the reason he left, this is unacceptable behavior. It's better to leave and find someone more worthy of your time, attention and affection.
Keep your head down and strive for what you want, not what is in front of you. You have to do this for yourself.
A man has disappeared. No, not missing, there is no need to look for him with police shepherd dogs, he also goes to work, returns to his home in the evening or meets with friends, but for you he is no longer there, dear reader. He left without explaining the reasons, calmly closing the door behind him, and not throwing a snotty tantrum. Why did he do this, what should he do, and who is to blame, and what makes men disappear?
Let's initially “pick up” the very first days of acquaintance. Why these particular dates? Because at that time your chosen one was a prince on a horse and an angel in the flesh. It was only later that in your understanding, his “crown moved off” and “the halo disappeared.” But during the acquaintance and the bouquet and candy period, you personally did not allow yourself anything bad: you applied makeup and slightly overacted in a flirtatious manner. You carefully selected your words so as not to scare off the gentleman. You could flirt a little innocently with others to stir up your man's feelings.
And now you already have your first intimacy, several meaningless quarrels with a stormy reconciliation, words become simpler, flirting with others becomes inappropriate, a habit of mutual relations is developed. And suddenly your man increasingly has some hitherto unknown affairs, and he evaporates. He answers the phone more and more reluctantly, and later drops your call altogether. There is no contact for “debriefing”; he does not want to communicate.
So, the main reasons for his mysterious disappearance:
- You have gone too far with your demandingness, which is frightening. The words “give” and “I want” can be forgiven for a child. AND we're talking about not only about mercantile interest, but about what you demand from his behavior. Do you know that an egoist is not one who lives as he wants, but one who demands others to think and do as he wants. But real men can't stand it.
- “I unstuck the shell” - well, I simply forgot to take care of myself. Men, who are mostly visual, fall in love with the first image of a woman. If you appeared before him in an amazing outfit and impeccable manicure, then be kind enough to keep the brand longer. It’s another matter if he first saw you digging potatoes at your grandmother’s dacha and fell in love with it. And all the same, there is no need to “lower yourself to the plinth.”
- Bitchiness in public. This is much more demanding. A man, if he is interested in you, tries to introduce you into his social circle - friends, family. AND your behaviour will a shining example for him - whether to continue the relationship with you. Uncontrolled words, outright rudeness in addressing others, those around you will be immediately received with hostility, plus this is equated to womanly stupidity. Even if in your opinion you defend your point of view.
- Obsessiveness. Don’t scare the guy off during the first couple of minutes - give him freedom. Planning dates and future life with children is the privilege of men. If you step on his heels, you will see how he sparkles with them.
- Frank flirting. I would like to say it more rudely, but censorship does not allow it. Do you want to make a phlegmatic person jealous? Then look cooler than all the ladies at the party. But, if you allow yourself to hang on to others in front of your boyfriend, then you risk, at a minimum, running into a scandal, and at a maximum, his silent departure forever.
By by and large These are the main reasons for the gentleman to draw his own conclusions and subsequently dismiss you as an annoying fly without explanation. And why - everything is clear. Most likely, he has already found a replacement for you, or vice versa - he is temporarily disowning all women, having experienced stress with you. Or another reason - the guy is a “walker”, and you are an episode in his life. If you have already fallen in love with him and were the first to tell him about your feelings, then he has already “handled” your relationship. No matter how hard you try to reach him, don’t expect an answer; disappearing without a trace is his style.
It seems that the relationship has been tested for strength, and the ring on the finger is sparkling, life has improved, and each other’s character has already been studied. The likelihood that a man will suddenly disappear, as if he had fallen through the ground, is very low - anyway, a showdown cannot be avoided due to “misunderstandings.” Friends and relatives will come running, and let’s make peace. But there are times when women simply do not want to notice how “this abscess is ripening.” In the case of her “blind and deaf” attitude to all claims, she believes that her beloved has gone missing.
In fact, he was fed up with everything. He may not notice how his wife smoothly switched from evening dresses to dressing gowns, he may tolerate her grumbling, but he will not tolerate “going too far.” What exactly:
- Humiliation and deep grievances. “Your friends are all idiots! Kick them out now!” - this squealing phrase from a wife when her husband is visiting. “Well, you have parents! Such idiots! — a phrase she said to her husband one-on-one. “You’re a goat, impotent!” - this is in the heat of anger. For a man, such words are catastrophic! Don't be offended, my dear, but leaving for this reason will justify your lover.
Negative pressure from relatives from the spouse. Keep in mind, dear, when you got married, you created a completely different family. The opinion of your relatives should be secondary for you, and you can only agree with it together with your husband.
Your love is on the side. If you have such a sin, then never, under any circumstances, admit it to anyone - even close friend. It is a rare man who can forgive his lover for his wife. Moreover, his departure in silence is sometimes The best decision. To communicate further with an unfaithful person is always beneath dignity.
His love. Yes, oddly enough, men also fall in love. A woman was found who did not repeat your mistakes, seduced you, entangled you in love nets. I set my own conditions for your infidel. Usually they say about this: she bewitched her grandmother. No, everything is much more prosaic, it just turned out to be closer to him.
“Didn’t get through.” That's right - when the same topic for quarrels becomes a barrier to relationships. Even if it's ridiculous. Small example from life. One rich and respectable man married a beautiful simpleton, obsessed with cleanliness, thinking that he would make a princess out of Cinderella. And she was obsessed with cleanliness, walking around the house with a rag. And this is how he talks about his marriage: “I told her a hundred times - stop rubbing everything here, and she’s a rag! I hired a housekeeper, she kicked her out, saying I could handle it myself. It started to infuriate me, they quarreled constantly. And then one day I called her and told her to be beautifully dressed for the important evening. I come home for her, open the door, and in the hallway her butt is right next to the door, dressed in sweatpants, and she is cleaning the floor in a half-bent state! I wanted so badly to hit that ass, but I chose to slam the door and leave forever!”
- Screams and hysterics at high pitches. A woman's scream is unbearable for a man due to the high notes. Well, how is it for you to work at a sawmill? And his wife’s ugly grimaces during hysterics repel him. Look at yourself in the mirror at this time - pay attention to how skewed you are! Men prefer to leave this disgusting sight.
So what to do if a man stops showing up? Maybe he just decided to take a break this way, as in. Or survive with the help of a psychologist, friends and mother? As an option. Because it is hardly possible to reach a man who has already lost interest in you. Even if you drag him home with the help of a lasso, life will no longer work out; he will no longer love you. You just need to start living in a new way, and never repeat the mistakes that you made out of inexperience, so that your other chosen one does not have to disappear without a trace either.
Finally - an unusual technique
Let's do a thought experiment.
Imagine that you have the superpower to “read” men. It’s like Sherlock Holmes: you look at a man and you immediately know everything about him and understand what’s on his mind. You would hardly be reading this article now in search of a solution to your problem - you would not have any problems in your relationship at all.
And who said that this is impossible? Of course, you can’t read other people’s thoughts, but otherwise there is no magic here - only psychology.
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Why men leave in English was written several posts below. Now we will analyze the situation when everything was going well, the relationship was at the peak of development, you had joint plans and even more, and the man suddenly and without explanation disappeared. In 50% (or even more) the answer is obvious and uninteresting - he simply made peace with his ex-girlfriend/wife. It’s sad to realize, but very often the most seemingly wonderful relationships are an illusion. It seems to us that this is the one, and the man is simply actively building relationships because he wants to get away from the past as soon as possible. But if at some point ex-girlfriend decides to take him back, and he's not completely over her yet, he'll choose her. And he may leave without really saying goodbye. Even so. Even if everything was already serious for you. In this very emotionally difficult situation, the most important thing is to understand that it is absolutely not your fault. You may consider yourself much more beautiful, smarter and better than his ex - and even objectively this may well be the case - but men very often prefer to stay with the one with whom he has already spent many years. I even witnessed situations where a man already loved a new girl, had already introduced her to all his friends and relatives, but his ex showed up. At first he firmly refused to even talk to her, then he began to rush about, returned to her, went back to the current one, then decided to take time to think alone about this situation and eventually returned to the previous one.
If you don’t get so far ahead and consider the situation when you recently met a man, started dating, both are completely delighted with each other, he showers you with gifts and proves his serious intention with his actions, then here too you may well encounter the fact that in the middle After all this idyll, the man disappears without warning. Or he begins to “freeze”, talk about being busy, problems, and answering the questions “what happened?” answer “Everything is fine, don’t make things up.” But you see that it’s not good at all. That before he called 5 times a day and also wrote SMS, you met every day, but now he calls once every two days, and the meetings have become less frequent. There can be 2 explanations here. The first and most logical thing is that he “conquered” you and calmed down. This does not mean that he no longer likes you, but he is no longer looking forward to meeting you. That is, the relationship reaches a new calm level. Or they don’t move on if the man is burned out or if he initially had frivolous feelings. The second explanation is more complex. Women prefer to call it “the man was afraid of his feelings.” This is not entirely true. Many men (women too, but less often) tend to stop at some point and think “so, what’s going on?” He won’t even necessarily think so, he may just instinctively feel it. When a man calls a woman every day and meets with her, he involuntarily begins to be drawn into her life. This is a natural process. And at one moment he feels that this takes up almost all of his time, and it shouldn’t be that way. He has his own, male world; he cannot be constantly in the female one. And so he takes a break to analyze everything and understand what to do next and what he needs in general. A woman at this moment needs to be as calm as possible. Under no circumstances should you call, pester, or 
panic and not become hysterical while sorting things out. It’s better to step back and mind your own business. The man must miss you. Or not get bored. But in any case, your annoying attention will not help, even if the man does not plan to leave you. The more you call him and remind him of yourself, the less opportunity you give him to miss you. Sometimes this pause can be prolonged. It all depends on your desire and patience. Are you ready to continue to wait calmly when 3 weeks have already passed, or this is not the hero of your novel, and you move on. Just keep in mind that there is no problem for a man to appear in your life again after 2 months or even more. Their brains are wired differently. In your opinion, he meanly disappeared, but in his opinion, he was doing important things, solving problems, had absolutely no intention of putting an end to your relationship and was generally a great guy.
There is another curious male trait. The man does not suddenly disappear from his point of view. This may be the result of his long thoughts. At the same time, the man is completely confident that everything he thinks about in his head is just as obvious to the woman, although they have never even thought about it 
talked. And so he rides in the car next to you, falls asleep next to you, has lunch at the same table and at the same time thinks about something. From day to day. And then he makes a decision and leaves. You are in a panic, and he is surprised - how come you didn’t notice his thoughts and don’t know what he was thinking about. For a man it internal dialogue so real that he is absolutely sure that you understood everything too. Have you noticed how men like to ask: “Where is that piece of paper that I hung on the refrigerator 2 months ago?”, “No, we’re not going to mom on Saturday, I’m going fishing all weekend, how come you don’t know? “I made an agreement with Vasya in front of you,” and even “where is my shirt?” These are all indicators that men are confident that we live their lives to the same extent as our own. And therefore, we are aware of his plans to give up everything and leave, to go headlong into new business or conquer Antarctica.
Finally, there are situations when a man gets tired of responsibility. Everyone needs something from him - at home, at work, parents, friends, children. Debts, worries, problems. He waves at
everything with his hand and scores. That is, he runs away from everything. Unfortunately, this is not a solution, because the formula “it will somehow resolve itself” does not work in this case. Because his loved ones will have to “dissolve” it. And this shifting of responsibility is characteristic only of very infantile or vile men, who ultimately sink to the bottom themselves. Therefore, these should be forgotten immediately.
Date: 2015-11-25
Hello site readers.
In this article we will talk about why a man appears and disappears. I know that many girls are surprised by this behavior of men. By the way, girls also behave this way. Both men and women exhibit this behavior. Of course, there is a logical explanation for this, although all the reasons still cannot be identified.
I wanted to tell you about this at the end of the article, but it’s better to tell you at the beginning. A man may appear and disappear if he is doing pickup. Six months ago I wrote an article: . So, pickup artists have equipment "closer-further". Its essence is to take two steps forward and then one step back. This is the same behavior when a man disappears and then appears. Then he disappears and appears again. And he can behave this way for a long time.
This technique is needed in order to make a girl fall in love with you. You must agree that it works. Otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this article. A man who suddenly disappears causes certain feelings in a girl. He may do this unconsciously (if he is not a pickup artist), but the effect is there. You are now sitting and trying to figure out why he behaves this way. You worry, which means you fall in love with him more and more. The girls themselves, without exception, use the technique "closer-further", but they do it unconsciously. This is how they attract more and more men to themselves, since men are more attracted to this technique.
But these are pickup artists who behave this way. Not all men study pickup. There are other reasons too. For example, there is simply no time. The man is very busy. Especially now, when there is a crisis in 2015, there is no work, no money. The man just has problems that need to be solved. Of course, he may not care about you for some time. As soon as the problems are solved, he appears again.
It happens that the girl he likes just gets tired of her. He wants to be with friends, relax, do something. A couple of weeks is enough for him to miss you and show up again. After all, he has other hobbies besides you. And besides, what kind of man is this if he has nothing and no one except you. He himself will then become uninteresting to you after some time. And so, while he disappears and appears, he attracts you.
You had a fight and he disappeared, you made up and he appeared. Everything is clear here. You offended him, he offended you. You are waiting for him to call you, he is waiting for you to take the first step, time passes, but there is no result. After some more time, one of you takes the first step to improve the relationship, because if one of the partners does not meet halfway, then the relationship ends. And if you often quarrel, then don’t be surprised why a man disappears and appears. It takes time to cool down. Sometimes it takes a long time to get something back good attitude, which was before. And so, if you seriously offended young man, then he just doesn’t want to talk to you. This may be for a certain time, or he may not want to communicate with you at all. Be careful when expressing your dissatisfaction. Otherwise, he will disappear and will not appear.
He's just tired of you. This is another common reason why a man disappears. If you often spend time with him, constantly call, write to him, and do not give him time for himself, then the man has a desire to disappear. Imagine that you are drinking milk. You drank one glass, then a second, then a third, barely. I don’t want the fourth one anymore, but I need to drink it. After the sixth, you begin to feel sick from the overdose. And tomorrow you can no longer look at this milk. The sight of milk makes you feel sick. So you have become like milk for him. He can no longer look at you. You are sitting in his liver (sorry for being harsh). You need to become a dosed milk, not an overdose.
And then the man will not disappear and appear. He will always be glad to see you, but only if you become milk, which will never be enough for him. You must always be missed for him. It is you who must appear and disappear. It is you who must use the technique "closer-further". And then your man himself will go online and be interested in a similar topic.
There is a high probability that the man is simply testing you, how much you need him. If a man notices that the initiative for communication comes only from him, and you never call or write to him first, then he may think that you are not interested in him. Consequently, he takes a step back in the form of disappearance. If you make contact, then he appears in your life as if he had never disappeared. Therefore, dear girls, do not give men reasons to test you. We also want to feel loved and needed. And sometimes we check it.
A man can disappear because he is infatuated with another woman. Besides you, he may start courting another girl. And if he doesn’t have a relationship on the side, he remembers you and appears in your life. But you need to know that his attention is switched to another girl. He may be with you physically, but mentally he will be with another girl.
He is simply indifferent to you and he does not want to communicate with you. Very often there are cases when a guy simply doesn’t like a girl. He just doesn't want to spend time with her. In such cases, it is useless to impose yourself on him. This will push him further away. Only time will tell what will happen next. He will either get bored and get in touch himself, or he will forget about you forever.
A man can disappear if he is offended on the side. He will worry, replay in his head the incident when he was offended. He simply won't remember you. He needs time to... When he comes to his senses, he will definitely appear in your life if he cares about you.
If a man disappears without explanation, then this is no longer your problem. The reason may not always lie within you. You need to love and respect yourself. Don't get too hung up on it, because it probably isn't worth it. Better get busy. Very often a man appears when you have forgotten about him or have met another man. And this is his problem. There was no point in disappearing. Now he will have to make an effort to get you back. Just like that.
Why does a man appear and disappear?
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