SHAKESPEARE'S PASSIONS AROUND THIS ISSUE HAVE BEEN FLARMED FOR MORE THAN HUNDREDS OF YEARS. PERFUME AS A GIFT CONSTANTLY CHANGES ITS STATUS. THEY ARE CONSIDERED AS A TOW OF RESPECT AND AN ABSOLUTELY LEGITIMATE PRESENT, THEY ARE SUBJECT TO PERSECUTION, CENIMATION, AND TODAY “PERFUME AS A GIFT” REMINDS THE FORMULA “EXECUTE CANNOT BE PARCORED.” LET'S TRY TO FIGURE OUT WHERE, HOW AND UNDER WHAT CIRCUMSTANCES IS IT WORTH PUTING A MEANINGFUL PUNCTION MARK.
GIFTS OF THE MAGIC
According to biblical legend, of the three gifts presented by the Magi to the baby Jesus, two - frankincense and myrrh - were of a perfumery nature. In ancient times, natural aromatic substances were worth their weight in gold and therefore often acted as a status gift. To present an elegant vessel with a tart-smelling resin to the overlord for Christmas or another holiday - without any reservations or errors - was a tribute of respect. And now there are status perfumes, such as, for example, Clive Christian No. 1 (volume 30 ml, crystal bottle, a 3-carat diamond on the cap, price from 320,000 rubles) or Clive Christian Imperial Majesty! (volume 250 ml, crystal bottle, inlaid with 18-karat gold foil, on the lid there is a 5-carat diamond, price from 12,500,000 rubles), as a gift for the boss, such an item will not be condemned by the most severe critic, though primarily because of the value of the packaging. Whether the olfactory composition is suitable or not, in this case it does not matter. But when we choose a perfume for its subtle and unique aroma, the situation is much more complicated.
The most mysterious argument is the counterargument regulating the choice of gifts: “according to etiquette, it is not allowed.” Formally, etiquette is established order behavior, forms of treatment in diplomatic circles, at court, etc. At many official events, actions are “conducted” by a special protocol service. Whoever shook hands first, bowed, smiled, stood up, sat down, walked in, walked out.
She also oversees the exchange of gifts. The regulations are updated annually at the level of the ministries of foreign affairs various states or departments external relations ministries and departments. Believe me, none of these services will take control of your relationship with Aunt Zina, friend Dasha, Sergei Petrovich from the clinic and Viktor Borisovich from the neighboring department, which means they will not be able to allow or prohibit the gift of perfume.
In the same etiquette guide, three paragraphs below, national souvenirs, perfume, a beautiful bag for cosmetics or aromatic salt for baths Even lower, a travel iron appears as a gift allowed by etiquette.
All you have to do is rely on common sense and a sense of humor.
Renata Litvinova
Actress, director, screenwriter I sometimes insist - I impose, when giving perfume to someone, that he should consider this smell. In any case, such a gift is an opportunity to travel in a new world. Perfume is a repository of memories, and they are all colored by smells. Sometimes a wave of someone's spirits can generate such a flow of feelings from the past that you can even cry. Or laugh. It is appropriate to give perfume to someone when there is indifference to this person, any kind of sympathy. The desire to please is my main goal in such a gift. Even for a minute, a person will be taken out of his daily routine, inhaling a new aroma. He can frown or relax, bad thoughts can let go of him, this is a whole magic and treatment with smells. That's why I love rich and strong notes in perfumes so much - so that you can't help but feel them. So that they can never be forgotten! Let them remember how they met me, for example!
How often do I give perfume as a gift? I do this all the time. In this sense, I am unceremonious, I can burst into a person’s quiet world and begin to disturb him. I love motivating people new life, new breakthroughs, new smells!
To give or not; give perfume"? Everyone decides; this dilemma for! yourself
On the other hand, modern reference books on household and business etiquette They are so cheerfully confused about the “can-do” status regarding gifts that their brains are boiling. For example, in the same section it is written that you shouldn’t give your boss, unless it’s your close friend (who knows who’s lucky), “a vest, perfume, tights.” The quote is verbatim. Well, indeed, Big Boss will look strange in women's tights, a vest, and even shrouded in a cloud of perfume. Especially if he is a respectable man.
Alexander Rogov
Popular stylist and fashion expert:
Should I give perfume? I think this is a great present! But as a personal gift, perfume requires attention to detail and understanding; style and preferences of the person you are going to please. Young and active people may like light, fresh aromas. Romantics usually prefer flower arrangements. Besides, there is nothing wrong with directly asking a person about his perfume tastes!
Singer
I think it’s appropriate to give perfume only when you know the person well, his preferences, favorite notes and aromas, but in general you shouldn’t be surprised in this matter. For example, I have been using the same scent for many years. And when I receive new bottles of perfume as gifts, they are all sent to my friends and family and the leapfrog of re-gifting begins, although I really don’t like it.
Valentin Yudashkin
Russian fashion designer, master of Haute Couture:
Giving perfume is not only possible, but even necessary. Very often people develop olfactory stereotypes. For example, flowers and berries are for women, woody and citrus chords are for men. Changing long-established habits on your own can be difficult. Some people have been buying the same perfume for decades. Without even suspecting how diverse and amazing the perfume universe is, how many discoveries have been made in last years how exquisite and paradoxical modern fashion for aromas. A new cologne or perfume as a gift is not just a beautiful bottle, it is an invitation to the vast World of Perfume, full of wonderful surprises and unexpected revelations.
Beauty blogger
As far as I know, according to the rules of etiquette, perfume should not be given as a gift. This may be interpreted as a hint that the person smells bad. Perhaps it would not be very correct to give perfume to your boss... But the main thing is still what message you put into the gift and in what mood you give it. It so happened that I don’t have people around me who could somehow misinterpret such a gesture. It seems to me that perfume is always relevant. For me this is one of the best gifts! I love choosing a fragrance for a long time and scrupulously, trying to combine my taste and the taste of the person for whom my gift is intended, and I also really love it when people give perfume to me. After all, for a girl this is a contribution to her charm, how can you not like it?
Your gift is not just a token of attention! This is also a recommendation from a specialist who is well versed in perfume fashion trends!
IF THE PERFUME IS INTENDED FOR A CLOSE PERSON!
friend/girlfriend, fiancee/groom, husband/wife, son/daughter, father/mother, grandfather/grandmother. You are quite familiar with the tastes and preferences of these people.
IF YOU ARE A REPRESENTATIVE OF A PERFUME_COSMETICS COMPANY
Or a perfume blogger, an expert in the field of perfumery. Your gift is not just a token of attention, but also a recommendation from a specialist who is well versed in perfume fashion trends. And such “advice” is worth a lot!
CAREFULLY
Unfriendly work colleagues, “sworn friends”, conflicting relatives of the wife/husband (without agreement and approval of the gift on both sides). If the choice turns out to be unsuccessful or controversial, you may be suspected of treacherous intent. For example, “oh, you don’t like my smell,” “you can’t stand me.” But you never know what kind of nonsense comes into your head? It's better not to take risks.
The reason may be high sensitivity to fragrances, intolerance or allergic reactions. Therefore, it is better to find out in advance why a person does not use perfume. If you simply haven’t found “your scent,” feel free to hand over the perfume. Most good idea for a gift to such a neophyte there will be a “perfume constructor”
Donate perfumes that you don't like. Especially if you have already printed the packaging and opened the bottle (pumped the spray bottle).
GIVING PERFUME TO A STRANGER PERSON; the partner of the gifted person will clearly not appreciate such a Gift.
The boss, the local doctor, the tax inspector, the building manager. (The exception is our children’s teachers. As a rule, relations with them are not so coldly formal and quite allow for such an emotional gift as perfume. In other cases, it is appropriate to give a fragrance not as a private person, but as a representative of a perfumery and cosmetics company.
The stronger sex treats perfume differently. Despite the fact that men were the best perfumers and alchemists, ladies are more progressive in choosing fragrances. The same perfume becomes fashionable and attractive to women of all ages, of all incomes, of different nationalities in many countries of the world. A man is more conservative in his choice.
Thus, residents of the Muslim East or immigrants from these countries prefer - Opium or Habit Rouge , which would seem too heavy to a European, and the descendants of the Vikings, “true Aryans” and “blond beasts,” do not want in any way to soften their features and succumb to the trend of global warming. Tart chypre aromas of freshness, cold and sea with a slight note of premonition of spring, more on melted snow rather than on the first flowers - this is their choice. In principle, there are as many fragrances for men as there are for women. Men's fragrances are traditionally divided into: Citrus, which include Eau Fraiche (C. Dior), Ungaro (Ungaro), Drakkar (G. Laroch), Armani pour Homme (Armani).
Floral: Dune pour Home (C. Dior), Cool Water (Davidoff), XS (Rabann).
Ferns ( wine glasses): Monsieur Rochas (Rochas), Polo Sport Extreme (R. Lauren), Gucci Nobile (Gucci), Egoiste Platinum (Chanel).
Chypre: Pour Monsieur (Chanel), Davidoff (Davidoff), Dali pour Home (S. Dali).
Woody: Bvlgari pour Home (Bvlgari), Egoiste (Chanel), Gucci pour Home (Gucci), One Men Chow (J. Bogart), Tommi (T Hilfiger).
Amber: Homme (Joop!), Le Male (J.RGaultier), Ambro de Jacomo (Jacomo).
Leather: Derby (Guerlain), Bel Ami (Hermes), Cuir de Russie (Chanel).
Choosing the right scent for a man as a gift is both easier and more difficult than choosing a new perfume for women. In any case, a woman will be interested in a fashionable novelty, complex design the bottle, the quality of printing, the name of the company, and finally, the price of the gift. Effects directly on a manvenomous smell. If you know exactly the tastes of the person for whom the gift is intended, then it is easy to find a similar one based on its components. Or, being in close friendship, find a suitable scent for your character traits and inclinations.
Fresh citrus compositions with aromas of lemon, lime, grapefruit, tangerine or orange are suitable for athletic, active men - Lanvin L Homme (Lanvin), Paco (Paco Rabanne ). Business pragmatists like musky scents with main notes of oakmoss and geranium - Casran (Chopard), Paradox (Jacomo).
For romantic men, look for spicy compositions for gifts with combinations of pepper, ginger, cinnamon, thyme - Opium pour homme (Yves Saint Laurent).
For real “macho” people, it’s better to stick to classic compositions with notes of sandalwood, for example Kenzo pour homme (Kenzo).
And the active ringleaders, reminding “ perpetual motion machine", present a bittersweet cologne with a pronounced note of leather - Derby (Guerlain).
The aroma of dry tobacco leaf with tart musk is ideal for a respectable boss - Leau d'Issey pour homme (Issey Miyake).
Egoists and individualists can be given chypre compositions with citrus notes combined with musk - Aqua di Gio (Armani ). Fresh floral scents people who are energetic and cheerful love it; warm smells are loved by romantics and dreamers - XS (Rabann), Farenheit (S. Dior), Insense (Givenchy).
And carefree and cheerful people always choose floral and fruity compositions - Sonia Rykiel Homme (Sonia Rykiel).
Oriental aromas are conducive to deep feelings. But pragmatists and people who rely on professionalism love the bitterish shades of chypre scents - Zino Davidoff (Davidoff), Dali pour Home (S. Dali).
However, men have rightslo: if you don’t know what to choose, buy a citrus perfume - you won’t lose.
Perfumers and psychologists say: a young man from 17 to 25 years old, who has not yet had time to grow into a business suit and start a family, will suit light, fresh and active aromas. For example, Tommy by Tommy Hilfiger - a unique cocktail of grapefruit, cranberry, lavender, mint, bergamot, blooming cactus, yellow rose, blue spruce, with the added scent of freshly baked apple pie and cinnamon. Or - Light Him by Trussardi , which the Italian designer addressed to young people from 18 to 25 years old. The aroma combines Japanese iuzu, Mexican lime, green mandarin, bergamot, French basil, sage, freesia, cardamom, South American pepper and Jamaican juniper.
Young men a little over 20, for whom sports activities are not limited to physical education lessons at school or college, can choose Booster from Lacoste (mint, menthol, eucalyptus, Italian lemon, Guinea orange, grapefruit, Provencal lavender, hedione, vetiver, cedar, sandalwood, musk), as well as unisex fragrances ( Dalimix by Salvador Dali with the frosty freshness of fruits) or techno-style cologne - Odeur 53 (Comme de Garson).
When you reach the age of 30, you have to choose your next perfume with special care. Young men who are actively and confidently pursuing a career need dynamic but at the same time elegant fragrances: Salvatore Ferragamo pour Homme (grapefruit, pink grapefruit, fig leaves, cyclamen, African geranium, cloves, cardamom, vetiver, cedar, musk, sandalwood), 212 men by Carolina Herrera (citrus leaves, green grass, spice leaves, ginger, green pepper, gardenia, sandalwood, incense, musk) or Bvlgari pour Homme by Bvlgari (darjeeling tea aroma , pepper, rose and guaiac trees, lily, lily of the valley, bergamot, black currant flower juice).
A man in full bloom can use in the office Declaration from Cartier . Despite the fact that the creators of the fragrance defined it as a perfume for a man in love, the smell consists of notes of Russian birch, Italian bergamot, bitter orange from the Coast Ivory, Virginia cedar and other exotic trees and herbs, is quite suitable for a business setting.
And on vacation and on vacation, a mature man is intended Good Life by Davidoff, Week end for men by Burberris or recently appeared Casual Friday from Escada.
For those who don't know: Casual - a word adopted in Western business circles, meaning a loose style of clothing, acceptable even in the office, but only on Friday, the day before the weekend. The simple and calm scent of this perfume is suitable for successful managers and novice businessmen who can take a break from work for at least two days. Light and active masculine scents are also good at this age: Aqua di Gio from Armani, L Eau d Issey from Issey Miyaky or Dune pour Homme from Christian Dior.
But at 40-45, a man occupied a separate office - it’s time to change his perfume again, preferably to a chypre one (for example, Elements Aqua or Boss by Hugo Boss ). If he has retained youthful mobility, then they will fit Black Bvlgari by Bvlgari - in them the aroma of lapsang tea from the island of Ceylon gives way to the aroma of smoke, and then smoothly turns into tart notes of rubber and resin. It will sound unexpectedly bold at this age Egoiste or Platinum Egoiste from Chanel.
But closer to 50, it is better to choose expensive classic fragrances that speak of stability, predictability and reliability ( Pour Monsieur by Chanel, Nobile by Gucci, Rocabar by Hermes, Jaguar by Gaguar, Special Edition by Jaguar, Zino by Davidoff).
A man from 30 to 60 years old can try on seductive aromas in the evening - spicy, warm, oriental, such as Xerius Rouge by Givenchy Ambro de Jacomo by Jacomo, HM by Hanae Mori, Jaipur pour Homme by Boucheron , or a new scent from Hugo Boss - Hugo Dark Blue . The only thing is that you should not give these fragrances to a friend under 30 or a work colleague with whom you are not on friendly terms.
Please also note that the gift of perfume can change your character. Therefore, when choosing a birthday gift, listen to the advice of astrologers.
ARIES prefers bright scents, with a complex warm-sour tint, typical of colognes - they will emphasize his image of a business man: Clinique happy for Men, Cerruti Image, Egoiste Platinum (Chanel).
TAURUS hates synthetic smells, preferring natural, light, even sophisticated aromas, such as floral ones. They characterize him as an elegant person who knows his strengths. Them give Escape for men (Calvin Klein), Bvlgari pour homme, Paco (P. Rabanne).
For GEMINI, variety is a way of life. They change smells “like gloves”, hunting for super fashionable new items. People often choose cologne just because they liked the bottle. They will appreciate and Bvlgari, and SKVe (SK), Nemo (Cacharel).
CANCER is a romantic man, therefore he prefers sensual scents, slightly sweet: Armani, Fahennheit (Dior), HM (Hanae Mori), Sonia Rykiel Homme.
LEO loves scents that are stylish, “powerful,” and pronounced. Prefers brands that are expensive and of high quality, with a strong reputation. Try it give Pleasures for Men (Est her Lauder), One Man Show (Bogart), Hugo (Hugo Boss).
VIRGO chooses classic scents, with which some pleasant memories are associated, or sophisticated compositions, like Allure Homme (Chanel), Dolce and Gabbana pour homme (Dolce & Gabbana).
LIBRA loves aftershave lotion more - for its lightness and unobtrusive smell. Rather, they like scents with a finely selected composition: Aqua di Gio (Armani), Calvin (CK), Chrome (Azzaro), Tommy (Aramis).
SCORPIO chooses scents that are heavy, mysterious, seductive, with pronounced spicy notes, in order to constantly be the center of attention. To him like it Diavolo (Antonio Banderas), Bvlgari Black (Bvlgari), Clinique Happy for Men.
SAGITTARIUS prefers natural scents with a slight tint exotic fruits and plants. Those that call you on the road, giving rise to images of distant countries. Present it to him Body Kouros (Yves Saint Laurent), Casran (Chopard), Declaration (Cartier).
CAPRICORN is alien to experimenting with himself, so he chooses classic colognes, good quality, with a lasting aroma: Casual Friday (Escada), Emporio (Armani), L Eau d'Issey pour homme (Issey Miyake).
AQUARIUS does not tolerate comparisons with anyone, he likes to stand out from the crowd. Therefore, he is always looking for new products with bright sour notes, on the verge of “unisex” scents, - Life Jazz (Yves Saint Laurent), Paco (P. Rabanne), Paradox (Jacomo).
PISCES are romantic, impressionable, and prefer scents with spicy notes. Provided that the aroma is not too heavy, for example Salvatore Ferragamo pour Homme, Sergio tacchini Uomo, Time for Reace for him (Kenzo).
They identify the smell and the planets. Men's fragrances of the sign of the Sun, which rules the constellation Leo, symbolize masculinity and the desire for success. This means that the smells of lavender and ferns will suit such people, as, for example, in the popular cologne Draccar Noir by Gui Larosch . Discreet arrogant scent Heritage Guerlen and Paco Rabanne pour homme will appeal to men with a purposeful character, just like Quasar Jesus del Poso with a soft, original aroma that has no natural analogues.
Men's fragrances related to the Moon and the constellation Cancer combine both sensuality and richness of natural plant aromas and light aldehyde components ( Davidoff Cool Water, Desire by Dunhill).
For men born under Saturn, i.e. typical Capricorns are interested in perfumes with a fresh and at the same time elegant smell, such as
L Insense Givenchy Cool Water Davidoff, L Eau Sauvage Christian Dior, Land Lacoste.Men's perfume for those born under Jupiter, i.e. Sagittarius, have a light attractive and unobtrusive aroma of fresh cucumber and herbs - Farenheit Christian Dior , provocative and expansive - TNT Theany . For mature men of this sign, a spicy composition based on amber, vanilla, cloves and sandalwood is suitable - Priciples Henry M. Betrix . Spirits have a similar expansive character to these perfumes. Dolce & Gabbana.
Men's fragrances of Venus, the patron of Taurus and Libra, are based on natural extracts of citrus fruits, bergamot, musk and oak moss. The romantic direction is represented by perfume Honzon Gui Laroche . More masculine spirits with an active but harmonious character - Bel Ami Hermes, Venecia Uomo Laura Biagiotti.
For those who are subordinate to Neptune, and this, as you know, is Pisces, fragrances are suitable Galileo Muelhens, Kouros Ives Saint Laurent, Equipage Hermes.
Men's fragrances for Mars and Pluto (Aries and Scorpio) should emphasize masculinity and self-confidence, these can be Platinum Egoiste Chanel, Miniature Picasso, Iatagan Caron.
The aromas of Uranus and, therefore, Aquarius are represented by a wide range of modern scents with a mixture ofbracken and lavender Azzaro, Jazz Saint Laurent. To them also includes the fresh smell of an ideal man Sud Est Romeo Zigli, Biblos G.-Ferre.
But everything changes, so try to open your to our friend new aromas of perfumes, colognes and fragrances summer water of the last decade. Previously, men's perfumes were different from women's because it didn't have that strong floral feelnotes - the emphasis was on leather, wood, zither owl and so-called “fern” components. However, in recent years, perfumers have quite openly included floral shades in men's fragrances. Particularly popular sage, lavender and geranium are used: this is soche tanning is present, for example, in Casran (Parfums Chopard), Eternity (Calvin Klein), Hugo (Hugo Boss). So that the distinction between male and female odors is sufficientdefinitely conditional, especially if you take into account the rise of unisex fragrances in the 90s dy (SK One and SK Be (Calvin Klein), GFF (Gianfranco Ferre), Dalimix (Parfums Salvador Dali )). But despite this, classic fragrances are in fashion: theirenjoyed by gentlemen of all agesstov and professions that choose a calm, slightlyconservative style in clothing and behavior.
And finally, an important question: when men like to receive perfume as a gift? New for men the scent and the new bottle are associated with exciting memoriesmenami - this either spurs a thirst for adventure,or supports them in moments of self-doubt. Birthday, New Year- not the best time for a perfume gift. And on Defender's Day Fatherland, he may generally be offended by such a gift ku. But here's a new perfume for the change of work you, the beginning or end of a project, going on vacation, arrival, recovery (men are more careful and attentive to their health than women) will be a very successful gift. In the end, when giving perfume to a friend, son or husband, weRome, in the words of the modern American writer Helen Keller, “a spell that can transport us thousands of miles in space and years into the past.”
Of course, it’s impossible to speak for all women, but receiving perfume or eau de toilette as a gift is like a blow below the belt! When choosing such a gift, you need to first of all understand that you are unlikely to please with the scent. In addition, you will definitely spoil the mood of the recipient, because there is even a sign about this and it does not bode well!
Sign about gifted perfume
Since smell plays an important role in a person’s life, there are unpleasant signs about the gifted aroma:
- If the birthday girl liked the gifted aroma of perfume, it means that her rival has become stronger.
- If you take on someone else's scent, you will lose your natural, native scent. Your man may leave you, so now you will become a “stranger” for him.
- When a woman receives a gift of perfume from a stranger, she will soon have to move away from her husband.
- If you gave perfume to a stranger as a gift, you can be sure that you are the object of his wife’s jealousy.
When choosing eau de toilette or perfume as a gift, rest assured that you have spoiled the birthday boy’s mood, and perhaps that’s what you wanted?! In addition, today in “elite” circles such a gift from a stranger can be considered rudeness, insult and open hypocrisy, as well as disrespect for the recipient!
If such a gift was presented to you, then, of course, try to prevent the signs from coming true. Kindly refuse the gift, citing other tastes, and do not think of feeling awkward. When you took the gift, you were clearly thinking about something negative, or the person was simply so stupid!
Gifts of eau de toilette, perfume and any “fragrant” accessories can only be given by the closest people, who are not only up to no good, but have even studied your tastes with a bang! In addition, you can accept such gifts from loving spouses and from your young people and even lovers; there is nothing reprehensible in this.
You also need to decide for yourself that you will never give perfume to strangers. Firstly, there is no need to make yourself look stupid; there will always be a person in the company who understands the essence of the donated items. In addition, you risk provoking yourself; “experienced” people may regard such a gift as a hint of a romantic relationship. Your wife may become jealous of you, and you will find yourself in a completely awkward situation; the holiday will be ruined not only for you! And, of course, the most important thing is that when choosing a scent, you take into account your preferences, which means you are giving a stranger a piece of yourself...
Dear ladies, we invite you to cross off all kinds of washing, shaving and men's perfumes from your gift list. Firstly, take a closer look at the shelves in your new loved one’s bathroom, and you will probably find a lot of bottles, jars, foams and deodorants on them.
Secondly, it is extremely difficult to choose the right perfume for a man, especially if your romance began shortly before this holiday. Therefore, you should not randomly buy perfumes or shower products that you like - behind the beautiful packaging there may be a scent that is not very pleasant for a man.
Romantic accessories
We women are romantic in nature, so we sincerely rejoice at any trinket given by a man, which touches with its simplicity and confirms his love. But men, unlike us, do not always react so emotionally to such romantic things. Therefore, we advise you to cross off from the gift list: photo frames, souvenir hearts, vases or dragons with the inscription I love you.
Not worth giving to a guy: Men's accessories
Open your loved one's bedside drawer and take a close look at what's in it. If you find in it gifts from the year before last in the form of lighters, key chains, diaries, pen cases (even though he used a pen - that’s good), then exclude such things from your list. As you can see, some of them found their rightful place in a drawer, and not in your beloved’s briefcase or pocket.
Erotic toys
You most likely buy fur handcuffs, panties with images of female lips and other erotic things for yourself. Of course, with the help of such gifts, on the one hand, you show your active participation in intimate relationships and want to diversify them. But on the other hand, a man may think that he is no longer able to satisfy your appetites without the help of various “foreign” objects. Think twice and weigh whether it’s worth buying accessories from a sex shop for your loved one.
Don't give your boyfriend: Exotic accessories
If you want to give a man a hookah, a pipe or a set for making sushi, this means that you are sometimes bored in his company. And with the help of such exotic accessories you are trying to diversify your leisure time. Judge for yourself, because oriental souvenirs are also intended not for him, but for general use. Therefore, this gift is unlikely to emphasize your feelings for a man.
Car accessories
If you decide to delve into male psychology and you try to love his car as much as he does - you are unlikely to succeed. Moreover, if you want to ennoble his “little” with the help of various pendants in the form of the above-mentioned hearts, dragons or emoticons, you should not do this. Why? Because all these accessories are symbols of women's hobbies, but not men's. And in order to avoid the incomprehensible (in best case scenario) reactions during the presentation of such a present - cross it off your list right now.
What not to give a guy: Pets
Kittens, puppies, parrots, chinchillas are very cute animals that you can play with... at someone's house. They can be given warmth, attention, care and... unrealized maternal feelings. Yes, yes, if you decide to give your loved one a pet, he may think that you are hinting to him about paternity. Or in this way you tell the man that it’s time to become more responsible. And if your man has never hinted to you that he wants to buy himself a small kitten or puppy, discard this idea so that its effect does not cause a crack in your relationship. Good luck!
It is difficult to imagine a person who has not received or given perfume at least once in his life. The variety of aromas makes perfumes one of the most popular gifts for both beautiful ladies and the stronger sex.
At the same time, popular rumor speaks unflatteringly about such a gift. After all, according to the superstition, Eau de Toilette or cologne received as a gift from a stranger can cause discord in the family.
This is understandable from an etiquette point of view. For example, the French, recognized leaders in the production of perfumes, consider perfume an intimate gift, advising it to be accepted only from loved ones.
Birthday perfume
Perfume will be a wonderful gift that will be appreciated by your other half, provided you choose the right one.
Of course, the main criterion when choosing should be the personal tastes of the person being gifted, but do not forget about existing general rules.
- When you give perfume as a birthday present, don’t demand that you try it out right away. A new scent can mix with the one already used, creating dissonance, and the refusal of the hero of the day to fulfill the request will put both of you in an awkward position.
- Since fragrances are divided into winter and summer, it is necessary to take into account the time of year. It will be a shame if the birthday person has to wait several months before he can use your gift.
- Of course, it is best to give perfume whose aroma is familiar to the person. However, sometimes you have to ignore this rule. In this situation, an excellent option would be to purchase a subscription to a specialized store, where your partner can choose them based on their own taste.
- Do not buy perfumes with a strong, tart or sweet scent without being sure that the recipient is a passionate fan.
- If you still can’t make a choice, then give preference fashion news season.
In addition, there is a special hypoallergenic perfume for children that does not contain alcohol. Perfume given to a girl can become that very gift, the vivid memories of which will be preserved for a long time. long years. It is possible that in this way you will contribute to the formation of good taste in your little coquette.
